As I sat down to write this blog entry, I realized how different the 4th birthday parties were for Dan and for Shelby.
First, there is the obvious: winter and summer. And the other obvious: boy and girl. These don't bother me.
The not so obvious things are what made me pause while writing. A request for toys made for 2 year olds vs. toys made for 4 year olds.
And 4 was the last birthday Dan had. We didn't know it at the time, though. His birthday always felt rushed - wedged between Thanksgiving and Christmas, and usually the same weekend as the firehouse kids Christmas party where we would get Santa pictures every year.
Shelby keeps me so busy, I usually don't have time to dwell on the differences between them. I do know that some of what we do is a reaction to losing Dan so early, and some things we were never able to do for and with him.
So we celebrate. We celebrate 4 wonderful years. We celebrate life. We celebrate a healthy, beautiful princess.
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