A blog about the grief after losing a child to Niemann Pick, Type C, a rare disease, and how I'm moving forward with my life.

Thursday, January 2, 2014

Thumping Thursday Blog Hop - Jan 2 - Guest Co-Host


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Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Happy New Year

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What a year 2013!

We welcomed our healthy daughter Shelby Lynn on August 7.
Faron became the Exalted Ruler (CEO) of our local Elks Lodge.
It has been 2 years without Dan, and we continue to adjust.
Jill has continued her blog: And Life Goes On at immovingalong.blogspot.com

Wishing you a wonderful 2014!

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Christmas Review

This was the first year we really decorated since Dan died.  It was difficult to do, but every year is a bit different.  We have to start living with kids again and celebrating holidays as holidays, not just another day of the year.  We can't jip Shelby because we miss Dan.

So here is how we decorated:







Welcome Christmas morning!!!  The train set we bought for Dan to play with - the Geo Trax Christmas Set.  Shelby doesn't quite have the knack of the controller, but I'm sure she will next year!



Monday, December 30, 2013

New Year's Five for 5

Last year, there was a special edition of Five for 5 - goals for the new year.

Party of One


So what were my goals for 2013?

2013 Goals

1. Get myself organized again. 
(this disappeared after Dan died)
2. Use my juicer more.  
(we got it for Dan to make sure he had good juice and we did use it, but obviously not much lately)
3. Evaluate the job situation. 
(the stress and bs is getting to be too much)
4. Read more books. 
(one of my favorite things to do)
5. Pay off some bills.
 (We all have them don't we?)


So how did I do?

1. I had good spurts and bad. After Shelby I wasn't as organized.  But using the lessons from Say Goodbye to Survival Mode I am getting better.  We use an online calendar (Cozi) to make sure we know what appointments and events are going on, so that has helped.
2. Nope.  Not even close.  It's used as a holder for my lunch bag.
3. There were some significant changes near the end of the year, so it will be a bit to determine if they are changes for the good.  I have a bit less than 17 years with the government, so it is tough to walk away.
4. I've read a few that I did reviews of.  Here are my reviews of Sunshine After the Storm and Say Goodbye to Survival Mode.  But I did read a bunch of newspapers and am slowly getting caught up.
5. I was hoping to pay some off before Shelby arrived, but it didn't happen.  And then a maternity leave and a government furlough didn't help.  So, no, this goal didn't get accomplished.


Let's try this again:


2014 Goals

1. Get myself organized again. 
(this will be vitally important with Shelby)
2. Read more. 
(it doesn't matter what it is, I just want to do more of it.)
3. Pay off 2 bills.
 (We all have them don't we?)
 4. Clean out some of the junk.
(We all have some.)
5. Don't sweat the small stuff.
('nuff said.)

Thursday, December 26, 2013

Niemann Pick Angels

For Those We Lost in 2013


Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

Tackle the Home Front

Say Goodbye to Survival Mode Challenge – Day 5: Tackle the Home Front

We’ve already spent time cutting the clutter from your schedule, but now let’s focus on your home. One surefire way to add more time and order to your life is to get rid of excess stuff that no longer serves. The added bonus? If you’re like me, you’ll be more productive when things are orderly and clutter-free. 

If you have a home piled with clutter, you won’t be able to overhaul it in a day. Instead, create a realistic plan of attack. Take one room at a time, and commit to working on it for 15 minutes (See Day 4’s Challenge) five days each week until it’s finished. Then start on the next.
 
Once you figure out what you are keeping and what you are getting rid of, make a space for items that seem to stick out like a sore thumb in a room. If you don’t assign a place for everything, it’s going to sit out, become clutter, and accumulate some more.


 
Team Effort: Maintaining a clutter-free home requires the whole family’s commitment. No one person should be responsible for every task, chore, or project in running a home – and that includes managing clutter. Can you imagine if you did every bit of cleaning, cooking, organizing, bill paying, yard maintenance, shopping, and (go ahead, fill in the blank!) entirely on your own? Or maybe you do. If so, I’m willing to bet you are worn out and exhausted! I know I would be.
 
Each individual member should pitch in and bear the weight of running a household to the level of his or her ability. When it comes to maintaining a clutter-free environment, everyone needs to chip in.
  

Today’s Challenge
 
If you feel overwhelmed with clutter, don’t panic. I’d like you to pick one space in your home to declutter as soon as you can today. This can be a drawer, cupboard, closet, medicine cabinet, your nightstand, or if you’re feeling overly ambitious, the pantry or refrigerator. Ruthlessly clear out any and all clutter and unnecessary items you find. Consider passing on extra food and household items to friends or donating these to someone in need. When cleaning out clutter, you’ve probably heard there are three categories: keep it, toss it, or donate it. Start with this one small space and I promise you will feel a sense of accomplishment right away.

Say Goodbye to Survival Mode

You can sign up for the Challenge at the link in the picture.

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Ok, so I'm working on this Challenge, just like I told you I would.  But I am modifying it a bit. I'm going to work on an item a week, instead of an item a day.


This is a big challenge for me.  Ever since Dan died, the clutter has taken over to the point that I just want to through out everything!!  But my dear hubby has been patient with me and slowly piling the clutter so I can get through it.  But every time I try to get started on a pile of clutter, we have to go somewhere or do something else, so the clutter sits.  Let's see what I can get done this week.


Here is Day 1 (or Week 1).

Here is Day 2 (or Week 2) with my results from Day 1.

Here is Day 3 (or Week 3) with my results from Day 2.

Here is Day 4 (or Week 4) with my results from Day 3.


Results: 
I'm still making my lists from Day 1. I don't feel I'm accomplishing as much now, the same items are still on the lists.  But then again, showering is important.

I still have my list from Day 2, and look at it but I haven't added anything to it.

I'm generally sticking to my Sunday-Thursday evening routine that I created in Day 3.  There have been a couple of days where it hasn't gone great, but it takes a few weeks to make a new habit.

My prioritized list of things from Day 4? I always have that, and it changes day by day.   I'm lucky I remember my name the last few weeks, and finding even 2 minutes to tackle something on the list...well, that's been tricky too.  So, I will make this a renewed effort over the rest of the 7 day challenge to work on this one a bit more.

Come back next week to see how I did with Day 5!